San Francisco Bay Area Singles Events
Meet Local Singles at Fun, Friendly Events Across the Bay Area
Looking for the best singles events in the San Francisco Bay Area? We host a wide range of social gatherings designed to help single professionals connect in a relaxed, enjoyable environment. From upscale cocktail mixers and themed parties to exciting Bay Area speed dating nights, there’s something for everyone.
Our most popular singles events feature our signature FUN Mixer Game—a playful, easy way to break the ice. Many events offer complimentary appetizers, great music, and lively atmospheres that make meeting new people fun and stress-free.
Whether you’re interested in dating events, singles mixers, or dance parties with top local DJs, we’ve got options for all ages. From 20s and 30s to 40s, 50s, and beyond, our events are tailored to fit your stage of life and relationship goals.
Check out our singles event calendar and find your next opportunity to meet amazing people right here in the Bay Area!
BLACK & WHITE TOP 40 DANCE PARTY
Get ready to light up the floor at a popular dance studio in beautiful Marin! We’re stripping away the color and cranking up the volume for a night of incredible music, movement, and community. Adults of all ages welcome. Not limited to single people. The Vibe: We’re playing your favorite Top 40 hits all night long. […] ...
ROOFTOP PARTY AT BOUTIQUE HOTEL for 40+
Meet new single friends, 40+, at Napa’s most beautiful boutique hotel! Dress to impress. Sunday, March 22, 2026, 3-5pm. TICKETS: $45. The hotel has asked us NOT to collect money at the door, so you must be on the prepaid list to attend. INCLUDES light appetizers, served at 3pm, as long as they last; plus […] ...
SILICON VALLEY SPEED DATING for 30s/40s
Ready for a fun, fast-paced way to expand your social circle? Join us for an exciting evening of speed dating designed specifically for singles ages 30s and 40s. Meet new people, 5 minutes at a time, in a cozy and elegant Wine Bar in Downtown Campbell. Dress to impress! Whether you’re looking for a soulmate […] ...
WINE TASTING PARTY AT HISTORIC WINERY for 30s/40s
Meet single professionals, 30s/40s, who appreciate fine wine at a lovely winery. This fun venue is half museum and half winery! Dress to impress. Sunday, March 29, 2026, 3-5pm. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $20/early birds (until March 15). $30/advance. $40/door, if space permits. Includes 3 free tastes! LOCATION: William Welch Wines, 837 Main Street, Downtown Martinez, CA. […] ...
SALSA SATURDAY!
Get ready to move! Join us for an evening of rhythm and community at our bi-monthly dance social in Novato, featuring Salsa, Bachata, and Merengue!. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or have never stepped foot on a dance floor, there’s a spot for you. When & Where Date: Saturday, April 4, 2026 (Every 1st & […] ...
NORTH BAY 50 & FABULOUS MIXER at Upscale Hotel for 50+
Meet new single friends, 50+, at a fine hotel! Make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game! Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening! Saturday, April 4, 2026, 7-9pm. TICKETS: $45 (advance). $55 at the door (if space permits). We encourage everyone to prepay, as these events often sell out. LOCATION: Sheraton […] ...
MEN WANTED for SPEED DATING for 40s/50s. Tickets for women are sold out.
Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at Walnut Creek’s newest hotel! Ages 40s/50s. Dress to impress! Sunday, April 5, 2026, 7-9pm. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. Tickets are sold out for women. We need more men! Please spread the word to your bachelor friends. RSVP does NOT reserve a […] ...
ADVANCED DEGREES MIXER at Upscale Venue
Meet new single friends with a Doctorate or Masters Degree at a lovely SF venue! Our FUN Mixer Game makes it EASY to connect. Adults of all ages welcome. Dress to impress. Thursday, April 9, 2026, 7-9pm. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. LOCATION: Dacha Kitchen & Bar, 1085 Sutter St, San […] ...
80s DANCE PARTY
We’re hitting the rewind button and turning the volume up to eleven! Join us for a high-octane night of nostalgia, neon, and non-stop movement. Not limited to singles. 21+. TICKETS: $20/advance or $30/door. The Vibe: We’re spinning the ultimate 80s Anthems The Theme: “Totally 80s” (Think neon, spandex, denim, and big hair!) Special Guest: An […] ...
THE VETTED SOCIAL – Where Every Man Comes Recommended!
We’re flipping the script. Welcome to The Vetted Social, an exclusive mixer for single professionals in their 30s/40s, where the guest list is curated by the people who know best: us. How It Works The concept is simple but effective: No man enters alone. To attend, every woman must bring one (and only one) single […] ...
SPEED DANCING – MORE FUN THAN SPEED DATING!
Ready to ditch the awkward small talk and find your rhythm? Join us for an exhilarating evening where the music does the talking. Speed Dancing is the ultimate way to break the ice, get moving, and meet active singles in a high-energy, sophisticated atmosphere. Whether you’re a seasoned pro or have two left feet, this event is […] ...
GIRLS NIGHT OUT
Hi girls, Let’s create our own dance choreography to Beyoncé’s Single Ladies. Forget the music video you’ve seen—we’re building something brand new. Join us for a night of collaborative choreography. We’ll spend the first hour building a fresh, 60-second routine from scratch – everyone will bring their own moves. Let’s find connections we build through movement. “It’s not […] ...
Meet new friends throughout the Bay Area, while helping restore sight to the blind! Every $50 we raise enables SEVA to finance a cataract operation to cure a blind person in the poor countries of the world! If you are unable to participate, but would like to help, please mail your tax-deductible donations to The Seva Foundation, 1786 Fifth Street, Berkeley CA 94710. On behalf of the blind, many thanks!
Organized by Rich Gosse, Chairman, Society of Single Professionals.
Note: If you are attending our event, you consent to being filmed or photographed. Your likeness or image may be used in our promotional materials, including social media, without being compensated. You may opt out of being photographed by letting our staff know this at the event.