San Francisco Bay Area Singles Events
Meet Local Singles at Fun, Friendly Events Across the Bay Area
Looking for the best singles events in the San Francisco Bay Area? We host a wide range of social gatherings designed to help single professionals connect in a relaxed, enjoyable environment. From upscale cocktail mixers and themed parties to exciting Bay Area speed dating nights, there’s something for everyone.
Our most popular singles events feature our signature FUN Mixer Game—a playful, easy way to break the ice. Many events offer complimentary appetizers, great music, and lively atmospheres that make meeting new people fun and stress-free.
Whether you’re interested in dating events, singles mixers, or dance parties with top local DJs, we’ve got options for all ages. From 20s and 30s to 40s, 50s, and beyond, our events are tailored to fit your stage of life and relationship goals.
Check out our singles event calendar and find your next opportunity to meet amazing people right here in the Bay Area!
ROOFTOP PARTY AT LOVELY NAPA HOTEL for 40+
Meet new single friends, 40+, at Napa’s most beautiful boutique hotel! Dress to impress. Our FUN Mixer Game makes it EASY to meet people! TICKETS: $45. The hotel has asked us NOT to collect money at the door, so you must be on the prepaid list to attend. INCLUDES light appetizers, served at 3pm, as […] ...
PENINSULA SPEED DATING for 30s/40s
Meet new single friends, 30s/40s, 5 minutes at a time, at a fine hotel near SFO with free parking during the party! DISCOUNT TICKETS: $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online. WHEN: Sunday, Oct 25, 2026, 3:30-6pm. WHERE: The lovely Garden Room at DoubleTree […] ...
FRESH START SOCIAL – for Divorced or Separated
Meet new friends who are Divorced or Separated at this fun party! Divorce doesn’t have to be the end of romance or your social life, but rather can be a new beginning. Adults of all ages welcome. Dress to impress. Hosted by Rich Gosse, co-author of The Divorce Book. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $40/advance. $50/door (if space […] ...
HALLOWEEN PARTY for 21-49
Prepare for a night of wicked beats, dark waters, and pulse-pounding energy at an exciting new venue in the heart of San Francisco’s Marina District! A live DJ will be spinning high-tempo tracks to keep the energy electric from the first beat at 9:00 pm until the final track at 1:30 AM. Halloween the right […] ...
HALLOWEEN COSTUME PARTY & DANCE, 50+
Halloween always boasts the year’s best party! Everyone is so much less-inhibited. This year we celebrate at a lovely restaurant right on the water at Harbor Point Tennis Club, where the world’s top tennis players compete each year! Meet new friends, 50+ and compete for prizes for the best costumes (optional). Dance to your favorite […] ...
SILICON VALLEY’S LARGEST HALLOWEEN PARTY FOR SINGLE PROFESSIONALS
ONE NIGHT. GREAT MUSIC. NEW CONNECTIONS. UNFORGETTABLE FUN! Adults of all ages welcome. WHEN: Saturday, October 31, 2026 | 7:30 PM – 11:30 PM. We have 3 Halloween Parties tonight. If this one in the Silicon Valley is not convenient, we also have parties tonight in Mill Valley for 50+ and San Francisco for 21-49. […] ...
MIX & MINGLE, 50+
Meet new single friends, 50+, at an upscale hotel! Make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game. Dress to impress and join us for a memorable afternoon. WHEN: Sunday, Nov 1st, 2026, 3-5pm. WHERE: DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel SFO, 835 Airport Blvd, Burlingame CA. We ask everyone to purchase at least one drink, so this […] ...
SILICON VALLEY SPEED DATING. Sold out for women.
Meet new single friends, 40s/50s, 5 minutes at a time, at a fine hotel in the Silicon Valley! Dress to impress. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. Tickets are sold out for women. WHEN: Wednesday, Nov 11, 2026, 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM. WHERE: The Westin Palo Alto, 675 El Camino Real, […] ...
ASIAN SINGLES & THOSE WHO LOVE THEM
Whether you’re Asian or simply interested in meeting Asian singles, this is a wonderful opportunity to expand your social circle, spark new friendships, and perhaps even meet someone special. Singles of all ethnicities are warmly welcome. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds. $40/advance; $50/door. We recommend that you purchase an advance ticket, because our last two Asian […] ...
EAST BAY SPEED DATING for 30s/40s
Meet new single friends, 30s/40s, 5 minutes at a time, at a large fun restaurant! DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online. WHEN: Wednesday, November 18, 2026, 7-9pm. WHERE: LOCATION: Metro Lafayette, 3524 Mt. Diablo Blvd, Lafayette CA. Free parking! […] ...
WINE TASTING & PARTY IN THE SONOMA WINE COUNTRY
Meet new single friends, 40+, who appreciate fine wine! Our FUN Mixer Game makes it EASY to meet people. Dress to impress. DISCOUNT TICKETS: $20/early birds; 30/advance; $40/door, if space permits. Includes 3 free tastes! WHEN: Sunday, November 22, 2026, 3-5pm. Postponed from an earlier date. WHERE: Bienvenue Vineyards Wine Lounge on The Town Green, […] ...
HOLIDAY SPEED DATING for 30s/40s
Celebrate the holidays with new single friends, 30s/40s, 5 minutes at a time, at a fun restaurant in San Pedro Square! DISCOUNT TICKETS: $35/early birds. $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits. These events usually sell out, so we recommend purchasing an advanced ticket online. WHEN: Wednesday, Dec 2, 2026, 7-9pm. WHERE: Ignite, 26 N San Pedro, […] ...
Meet new friends throughout the Bay Area, while helping restore sight to the blind! Every $50 we raise enables SEVA to finance a cataract operation to cure a blind person in the poor countries of the world! If you are unable to participate, but would like to help, please mail your tax-deductible donations to The Seva Foundation, 1786 Fifth Street, Berkeley CA 94710. On behalf of the blind, many thanks!
Organized by Rich Gosse, Chairman, Society of Single Professionals.
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