FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Have questions about how our events work? You’re in the right place! This page covers everything you need to know about attending singles events with The Party Hotline. From what to wear, how to register, who typically attends, to how our fun icebreaker games and speed dating events operate—we’ve got you covered. If your question isn’t answered here, feel free to contact us directly!
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Where Are the Parties for Singles?
We sponsor parties just about every week of the year, at different locations around the San Francisco Bay Area. Often they are at major hotel ballrooms, such as The Fairmont on Nob Hill, Westin St Francis on Union Square, San Jose Marriott, DoubleTree SFO, Pleasanton Marriott, Embassy Suites San Rafael, Sheraton Petaluma, Flamingo Santa Rosa. We also do parties at some of the finest and largest restaurants and nightclubs in the Bay Area.
Who Attends?
Single men and women of all ages and professions. All of the parties are a mix of both young and old, unless they are being targeted at a particular age group or niche.
What Kind of Music?
At our dance parties we have a DJ who plays your favorite dance hits, both current and from past decades. You will probably recognize most songs—today‘s hottest hits and the greatest songs of yesteryear.
How Do the Parties Compare With a Bar Scene?
We are an alternative to the bar scene. The differences are as follows:
- Our guests are all single and available. Bars have many married or
“unavailable” people. - It’s easier to meet people. Our singles attend our parties to meet new
friends and/or a romantic partner. At bars many are there just to get
drunk or pass the time away. - Our guests tend to be moderate drinkers. Hotels often compliment us
for our well-dressed, well-behaved crowd, but complain that “your people
don’t drink enough.” - No illegal drugs have ever been evident at our parties.
- Our guests are better-dressed. We recommend “dress to impress!”
Do I Need to Bring a Date or Come with Friends?
No. Most attendees come solo, and many say it’s one of the best parts — everyone is there to meet new people. You’re welcome to come with friends, but you’ll feel completely comfortable attending on your own.
Is there a dress code?
We recommend “Dress to Impress.” Our guests appreciate a classy atmosphere, and dressing well sets the tone for a great night. Think cocktail attire, business casual, or something fashionable and fun.
Do I Need to Register in Advance?
Advance registration is recommended, especially for discounted pricing or events that may sell out. However, unless otherwise noted, you can usually pay at the door as well.
Are These Events Age-Specific?
Some events are open to all age groups, while others are designed for specific ranges such as 20s–30s, 40+, or 50+. We clearly note this in each event description so you can choose the best fit.
Is There a Membership Fee?
No membership is required. You simply pay for the events you wish to attend. Many guests become regulars and enjoy the freedom of a no-commitment, pay-as-you-go format.
What Happens at a Typical Party?
Most events include music, dancing, and structured or informal mingling. Some may feature games, speed dating, or icebreakers, while others focus on dancing and socializing. Event descriptions list the specific activities.
Are LGBTQ+ Singles Welcome?
While our events are typically oriented toward heterosexual singles, we welcome everyone. Some events may be more inclusive or targeted — check individual event descriptions.
What Is Your Policy on Behavior and Safety?
We foster a respectful, inclusive atmosphere. Anyone engaging in inappropriate or disruptive behavior will be asked to leave. Our goal is a fun, safe environment for all.
What If I’m Shy or New to This?
That’s totally fine — many people attend their first event with a bit of hesitation. Our events are designed to be welcoming and easy to navigate, even for introverts. Icebreakers, friendly hosts, and an open-minded crowd help make it easier to connect.
What Time Should I Arrive?
We recommend arriving at the start time to take full advantage of the event. Early arrivals have a better chance to meet more people and settle in comfortably before things get busy.
Is Parking Available at the Venues?
Most venues offer parking either on-site or nearby. We often select hotels and clubs with valet or validated parking, and we always include parking info in each event listing when possible.
Can I Get a Refund if I Can’t Attend?
Refund policies vary slightly by event, but generally, tickets are non-refundable. In some cases, we may offer a credit toward a future event if you contact us in advance.
Do You Host Events Outside of the Bay Area?
Our core events are in the San Francisco Bay Area, but we occasionally host or co-sponsor singles events in other cities. Be sure to subscribe to our newsletter or follow us on social media to stay updated.
Can I Volunteer or Help Host an Event?
Yes! We’re always happy to welcome enthusiastic volunteers who can help greet guests or assist with check-in. It’s a great way to meet people and be part of the energy of the event. Please contact us for availability and need.
What Should I Bring to the Event?
Just bring your best self and a positive attitude! Some events may offer a cash bar or optional activities, so it’s good to bring ID and a method of payment. No special materials or paperwork required.
How Do I Know the Crowd Will Match My Interests or Background?
Our events attract a diverse mix of singles from various backgrounds, careers, and lifestyles. Whether you’re outgoing or reserved, young professional or seasoned socialite, you’ll likely find others you click with.
Are Food and Drinks Included?
It depends on the event. Some include complimentary appetizers or drink specials, while others offer full bar and food menus for purchase. Event listings always note what’s included.
Can I Invite a Friend Who’s Not Single?
These events are designed specifically for singles looking to meet other singles. We kindly ask that you only invite friends who are single and interested in mingling.
How Can I Stay Updated on Upcoming Events?
Join our email list or follow us on social media! We post frequent updates about new events, special themes, and early-bird discounts so you never miss out. Of course this website will always have a list of all our upcoming events.
Are you non-profit?
Yes, The Society of Single Professionals is a division of American Singles Education, Inc., incorporated in the State of California in 1978 as an educational non-profit organization. We are the world’s largest non-profit singles organization and have sponsored thousands of educational and social events for singles worldwide, on six continents.
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