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THE VETTED SOCIAL – Where Every Man Comes Recommended!

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We’re flipping the script. Welcome to The Vetted Social, an exclusive mixer for single professionals in their 30s/40s, where the guest list is curated by the people who know best: us.

How It Works

The concept is simple but effective: No man enters alone. To attend, every woman must bring one (and only one) single man as her “+1.” This isn’t just any guy—he’s someone you can personally vouch for. He’s the “great guy” in your friend group, the hidden gem colleague, or the ex who is actually a wonderful human but just wasn’t your human.

DATE: April 15

TIME: 7:00 PM – 9:00 PM

PLACE: DACHA, 1085 Sutter St, San Francisco, CA 94109

The Ground Rules 

  • The Entry Fee: Your ticket is your +1. Women cannot enter without their vetted male counterpart, and men cannot enter without their female sponsor.
  • The Quality Control: Ladies, by bringing him, you’re putting your “Stamp of Approval” on his character. You’re telling the room, “He’s a good one.”
  • The Intent: This is a high-trust environment designed to bypass the “stranger danger” of the apps. We’re crowdsourcing the vetting process so you can focus on the chemistry.

DISCOUNT TICKETS: $45/Early Birds/ $55/Door, if space permits. We have limited space. These events often sell out early, so we advise purchasing a ticket online as soon as possible.

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

SINGLEMINGLE for 50+

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Meet new single friends, 50+. Enjoy a gorgeous venue, and make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game! Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening!  Sunday, May 17, 2026, 7-9pm.

TICKETS: $45 (early birds). $55 at the door (if space permits).
Don’t wait, as these events often sell out!

LOCATION: Mog Asu Wine Bar at The Cove Shopping Center, 1 Blackfield Drive #14, Tiburon, CA. Free parking!

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

ADVANCED DEGREES MIXER at Upscale Venue

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Meet new single friends with a Doctorate or Masters Degree at a lovely SF venue! Our FUN Mixer Game makes it EASY to connect. Adults of all ages welcome. Dress to impress. Thursday, April 9, 2026, 7-9pm.

DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits.

LOCATION: Dacha Kitchen & Bar, 1085 Sutter St, San Francisco CA.

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

NORTH BAY 50 & FABULOUS MIXER at Upscale Hotel for 50+

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Meet new single friends, 50+, at a fine hotel! Make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game! Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening!  Saturday, April 4, 2026, 7-9pm.

TICKETS: $45 (advance). $55 at the door (if space permits). We encourage everyone to prepay, as these events often sell out.

LOCATION: Sheraton Hotel Sonoma Wine Country, 745 Baywood Drive, Petaluma CA. Free parking!

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

MEN WANTED for SPEED DATING for 40s/50s. Tickets for women are sold out.

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Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at Walnut Creek’s newest hotel! Ages 40s/50s. Dress to impress! Sunday, April 5, 2026, 7-9pm.

DISCOUNT TICKETS: $30/early birds; $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. Tickets are sold out for women. We need more men! Please spread the word to your bachelor friends. RSVP does NOT reserve a spot for you, only if you have purchased a ticket online.

LOCATION: Hilton Garden Inn, 490 Lawrence Way. Walnut Creek, CA. Free parking! Please purchase at least one drink, so this venue has us back again!

SCHEDULE:

6:45-7:00pm Registration.

7:00 – 7:15 Speed Dating Introduction

7:15 – 9:00 Speed Dating

Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 7:15 PM.

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

 

 

 

 

ROOFTOP PARTY AT BOUTIQUE HOTEL for 40+

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Meet new single friends, 40+, at Napa’s most beautiful boutique hotel! Dress to impress. Sunday, March 22, 2026, 3-5pm.

TICKETS: $45. The hotel has asked us NOT to collect money at the door, so you must be on the prepaid list to attend. INCLUDES light appetizers, served at 3pm, as long as they last; plus a FUN Mixer Game, with prizes. In order to facilitate gender balance, we are offering you the opportunity to bring a bachelor friend to the party, free of charge! Please email us at rich@richgosse.com,after you purchase a ticket, so we can add his name to the guest list.

LOCATION: Archer Hotel, 1230 First Street, Napa CA 94559. Enjoy both outdoors and indoors at the lovely Sky & Vine Rooftop Bar. Part of this bar is fully covered. As you enter the Archer Hotel, you’ll be overwhelmed by the majestic lobby. It will make you feel that you’ve entered a lobby at one of the National Parks. It’s that beautiful. Take one of the elevators up to the rooftop outside bar. That’s where you’ll join us. The surrounding views of the downtown area are absolutely amazing. The Archer Hotel is the tallest building in the entire Napa Valley, with sweeping views from our rooftop party! There are heat lamps and comfortable chairs for us to sit on. Some with a fire pit. Here’s your chance to actually meet someone in a casual environment like before online dating was invented.

If by chance you stick around until it gets dark, you can enjoy eating at one of the many outstanding restaurants or walk around the downtown area. Lots of free parking on the street and nearby garages. The Archer Hotel is located within easy walking distance of world class restaurants and distinctive shops. Our party at The Archer before the pandemic was the subject of a major feature story in The Napa Register!

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

MEN WANTED for 50 & FABULOUS PARTY for 50+ at Lovely Hotel

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Meet new single friends, 50+, at a fine hotel! Make connections easily with our FUN Mixer Game! Dress to impress and join us for a memorable evening!  Saturday, March 7, 2026, 7-9pm.

TICKETS: $45 (advance). $55 at the door (if space permits). Tickets for women are sold out. We need men! Please invite your bachelor friends so we have a good ratio. RSVP does NOT reserve a spot for you, only if you have purchased a ticket by credit card.

LOCATION: AC by Marriott Hotel SFO Airport at Oyster Point, 1333 Veterans Blvd, South San Francisco CA. Free parking during the party! $20 if you are parking overnight.

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

 

MEN WANTED FOR SPEED DATING. Tickets for women are sold out.

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Meet new friends, 5 minutes at a time, at a fun venue! Ages 30s and 40s. Dress to impress! Sunday, March 1, 2026, 3-5pm.

TICKETS: $45/advance; $55/door, if space permits. Tickets are sold out for women. WE NEED MORE MEN! Please invite your bachelor buddies to buy a ticket. RSVP does NOT guarantee you a spot, only if you prepay by credit card.

LOCATION: Metro Lafayette, 3524 Mt. Diablo Blvd, Lafayette CA. Free parking!

SCHEDULE:

2:45 – 3:00pm Registration.

3:00 – 3:15 Speed Dating Introduction

3:15 – 5:00 Speed Dating

Your spot will be given away if you have not checked in by 3:15 PM. Please purchase at least one drink, so this venue has us back again!

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

 

YOGA FOR SINGLES

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Find Your Flow and Your Match!

Looking to meet someone who shares your love for wellness? Skip the apps and join us on the mat! Led by our expert yoga instructor, Carem Love, this session is designed to help you relax, move, and connect with other local singles in a fun, low-pressure environment.

  • When: March 8, 2026, 10:00 AM
  • Where: 4140 Redwood Hwy, Suite 8, San Rafael CA
  • The Vibe: Relaxed yoga followed by a chance to mingle.

DISCOUNT TICKETS: $25/early birds; $35/advance; $40/door, if space permits. Space is limited. Reserve your spot today and start your weekend with high vibes and new connections.

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.

VALENTINES DAY CELEBRATION for Romantic Eligibles!

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Nobody enjoys being single on V-Day. That’s why we have organized a giant celebration just for single professionals, on Saturday, Feb 14, 7-10pm, at an upscale hotel. Adults of all ages. Dress to impress and wear something red.

DISCOUNT TICKETS: $45/advance. $55/door, if space permits.

7-8pm – Fun Mixer Game, which makes it EASY to meet people. Prizes for the winners! Complimentary appetizers, served at 7pm, as long as they last.

8-10pm – Dance to your favorite hits with DJ TJ.

LOCATION: AC by Marriott Hotel, 597 E El Camino Real, Sunnyvale CA.  Free parking!

CO-SPONSORED by The Society of Single Professionals, Singles Bay Area, Bay Singles Events & Travel, Your Asian Connection, BayAreaFun.org, and dozens of singles organizations and meetups. All events benefit The Seva Foundation, to restore sight to the blind.

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VIDEO from our New Years Eve Bash.